Jealousy

Can jealousy lead to coveting or is it coveting?

Why is jealousy dangerous?

The words below are not my words, I’ve borrowed them because they were very eye opening to me and I thought they might be to others as well.

The verses from the Bible are Numbers 17: 9-15

(Sharing from an article in part and edits written by Katia Bolotin)

God grants each of us resources with which to achieve our specific life's purpose. Saying to yourself, "I deserve this just as much, or even more than, someone else," or thinking, "Why don't I have what s/he has?" is implying that God's agenda is flawed. Thoughts such as these essentially express the haughtiness and entitlement that led to Korach's downfall. Focus, instead, on what's in your toolbox and use your resources well.

Whatever we have, or lack, is necessary for our particular role. It's not the part we play that matters; what matters is how well we play the part. Jealousy distracts a person from accomplishing what s/he has been placed in the world to achieve.

How to Be Like the Wise Person

The Bible teaches us: "Who is wise? One who sees what will be born [from his actions]. “Our thoughts and actions influence our direction. Harboring jealousy produces negative ramifications, and is harmful to our health and well-being.

How can we avoid falling into the clutches of jealousy? Recognize that thoughts lead to actions. Wisely and proactively choose what thoughts you allow to occupy your mind. Evict distorted ideas that can mislead you.

Eliminate the phrase "I'm so jealous" from your vocabulary. (Adding, also recognize your wants and desires for what you don’t have, where are they stemming from?). It may be just an expression, but it's certainly not a positive one worth repeating. Spoken words amplify our inner feelings. Rather than focus on what's lacking in your life, be more aware of what you have and can be grateful for.